Master requested I make a list of punishments and rewards. This is always challenging for me because there is a fine line between punishment and erotic stimulation.
During punishments it is important for Master to ensure I understand I am being punished and that he express his disappointment in me. It also helps if I am made to explain or retell what I did wrong, as I hate to verbalize my mistakes. If we are in the middle of a session and he is training me, then I think that is a different situation from punishment. That is just corrective training and it may be a quick smack to let me know I am not pleasing you in the moment.
Many of my punishment ideas may be used as part of our normal sessions or during a marking session but I believe if I know I am being punished, and you increase the intensity to an uncomfortable level, they will work for punishment as well. As for true punishment, there is a certain build up of anticipation for the punishment session which I admit I enjoy. It gives me a rush of dread and worry that I can’t explain. Here is a list of ideas I have for my punishments:
- Forcing me to spend the night in tight bondage
- Make me sleep with my collar on or a butt plug in.
- Spanking me in the daylight as you once described in the desert.
- Binding me up and ignoring me.
- The cane
- Inner thigh spanking
- Public humiliation for example we are in a bar and you grab my face forcing me to look at you.
- Pain without pleasure
- Uncomfortable postures
- Hard mouth fucking
- Forcing me to make myself vomit when I have been drinking
- Not allowing me to speak or look at you
- Sleep deprivation
- Playing out one of my session ideas (I will be writing these for you soon!)
- Romantic dinner
- Trip out-of-town
- Intellectual events such as lectures, book talk, movie, TED talk, etc.
- New sex toys
- Romantic love-making
- Using the vibrator on me
- Dessert with coffee
- New books
- Outdoor adventures such as hiking, geocaching, exploring ghost towns.